i just hate it full stop! alicia WILL be the yoko to this band in the end mark my words! i'm not a fangirl cos quite frankly i have an actual brain and don't even bother fantasing about being with one of them cos it won't happen and i'm not begrugening their happiness but for fuck sake frank has been with jamia for over 7 years and he hasn't just "taken a vacation" to be with her. he get's sick it happens he can't control it and doesn't just do it for down time but jesus mikey you had a break before the second leg of the tour to go "be married" and do shit like stuff with her. and the fact that they got married so quickly after starting dating i really hope that they brake up not cos i'm jealous but because she distractes him for being in the band being trying to be famous herself! what exactly does she do? except being pretty and married to him? gerard just ended a 6 year relasionship and he didn't take a vacation from doing the record! i hates this already. xLeeiax p.s btw i found your aim address and added you hope you don't mind :)